Interview With Lara Segrest


This month is Down syndrome awareness month. In honor of that, we decided our post my interview with Lara Segrest today.  Lara has been my friend for the past seven years, and I have watched her family grow and expand during that time.  During the interview, I talk to Lara about her family, what it was like to get a Down syndrome diagnosis during pregnancy, preparation for their son John Issac, and what life has been like after his birth.


My hope and prayer is that this conversation brings some awareness to Down syndrome (I know I learned something new) and brings some help to someone in a similar situation.  As you can see from the pictures, John Issac is a beautiful, thriving little boy.  I hope you learn as much from our conversation as I did.  Fair warning: you may cry a little.


~ Laura


Friday Favorites: What We are Watching on Netflix

Friday Favorites: What We are Watching on Netflix

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For the first four years we were married we did not have cable. Since moving to New York we are back to using the digital antenna for local channels and streaming services like Netflix. After a day of hitting the streets with two small children, one of my favorite things to do is cook dinner, put the boys to bed, and curl up with my man to watch a show. Its relaxing for me and while we are just sitting on the couch, it is time together. I am always looking for a new show. So, I love to hear what people are watching ! Here is what we have been watching recently!


We just finished the first season of Stranger Things. This is not our typical show but I have to say it was captivating. I believe we watched the whole season in a mater of days…not sure what that says about us, but I believe it tells you how the show held our attention. Stranger Things is about a boy who goes missing and the quest to find him. Winona Ryder is the most famous cast member. Winona plays the mother of the missing boy and gives a wonderful performance. The show is very suspenseful. While sci-fi is not my usual forte I give this show two thumbs up.


Another Netflix original, Chef’s Table is an interesting documentary following five chefs each season and honoring the creativity and artistry in their cooking. We have watched both first and second seasons, I found both to be very interesting. If you do not watch any other episodes watch Francis Mallmann in season one, Ana Ros in season two and Enrique Olvera from season two. Francis Mallmann is a world renowned chef who  cooks almost exclusively with fire. I personally like Ana Ros for the simple reason that most of the chefs on the show are classically french educated and she is self-taught. Not only is Ana a self-made and self-taught chef, but she works with local ingredients in Slovenia where one has to get very creative with scarce culinary resources.  Enrique Olvera is a chef from Mexico who is taking what is preceived to be a relatively basic Mexican food and celebrating the complexity of the sauces and obundance of ingredients. As he said himself he is taking ingredients and presentation that you would find in the finest resturants and presenting it in ways like the taco that celebrate his culture. Enrique mentioned in his episode that he has a restaurant in New York. Let’s just say after watching his Chef’s Table episode I am dying to try it!

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Crazy Ex Girlfriend has been my “go to” lite show lately. It’s what I watch when my husband is working late, or the boys are down for nap. The plot of the show is about a successful lawyer who completely picks up and changes her life to pursue an ex-boyfriend. When she randomly bumps into an ex-boyfriend who casually suggests they should  get together sometime, she quits her job to move across the country to pursue a relationship with him only to find out he has a girlfriend. The show is full of light-hearted humor and will remind you of when we have all let our crazy get the best of us!

So all of this leads me to ask, what are you watching? What should I watch next?

Xoxo, Lindsey

Friday Favorites

Friday Favorites

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We are teaming up with Mary over at to give away a fabulous Kylie Jenner lip kit! Check out our Instagram for details! Also, click on over to Mary’s site! I am lucky to call her family! Mary, her husband Sam and their two children live outside of DC. Sadly I have not joined the minivan club like Laura and Mary but when I do I hope I can make it look as cool. Her blog is an encouragement to young mothers like me! She talks about everything from travel to kids crafts. Definitely check her out here!

Carpool Kareoke

Because I have watch this video at least three times…. You are in for some laughs!

“Hey boo boo, what are you thinking club wise?”

Rodan and Fields


My friend Lillie gave me a sample of this micro-dermabrasion paste a few months ago. I am usually pretty hesitant to switch up my skin care routine! Well let me say, I love this product. It leaves your face with an almost silky feeling! You are only supposed to use it once or twice a week. With that said, it will take me some time to go through this bottle. Initially I thought it would be too pricey for me to justify buying. This product is becoming my favorite splurge! Contact my friend Lillie about your skin care needs! She is a great girl and also has fabulous skin as a testimony to these products!  Check her out: Here

Corkcicle Bottle


Ever since I had kidney stones I have been trying to drink more water! I found this bottle at a local boutique. It is similar to a Yeti but it comes in the fabulous pink color and is much more affordable! I put ice in it yesterday at 4:00pm. When I opened it this morning at 5:30am to take a sip it was still cold! I gave my mother-in-law one for her birthday and she uses it to take a cup of afternoon coffee to work!

Walmart Grocery Pickup

After seeing several friends post about the convenience of grocery pick up from Walmart, I decided to check it out for myself.  I just googled Walmart grocery pick up and it took me to their website.  I was able to look up by my zip code whether the service was available for my area.  To my delight, it was available and so easy!  You just pick out your groceries online, check out and pick your pickup time at your closest Walmart.  I will point out that you need to order them a day in advance.  I usually spend the night before my grocery shopping making a list anyways.  This is like making an online list and cutting out the shopping part.  I have only done it for two weeks, but it has made my life so much easier.  Also, you just call when you drive up for your pick up time, and they actually come out and load the groceries for you! It doesn’t get much better than that.  Just make sure to check your area.  They don’t have it everywhere yet, but I bet it will keep growing!

 xoxo~ Lindsey and Laura



Spring has sprung in our neck of the woods and there is nothing like flowers budding and birds chirping to remind you of the beauty of life. As Laura said last week, life has been busy. With things slowing down this week I am committing to take in each moment and enjoy the longer days with my boys!


A week ago I had the honor of hosting some of my family for Easter. With the passing of our grandmother two weeks ago, this year was a little different. After weeks of company and family around my mom said I could host to switch things up with this year being different. Hosting seemed a little daunting considering I come from a family of wonderful hostesses! But nevertheless I pulled out my China, set the table, and began to plan my menu. In our family, the staples are ham, deviled eggs, macaroni and cheese, and strawberry cake. All of that mixed with an assortment of casseroles and desserts makes for full bellies and good naps.

Here are a few pictures taken the night before.


This Easter was different but no less meaningful! It may have been a smaller gathering in a different place but the joy we have in the resurrection was more prevalent then ever. Though it was another day where we were reminded of the sadness on being separated with our love one in death, it also reminded me that because of the resurrection we have the hope of being together again one day!

xoxo, Lindsey

Lessons Learned From My Grandmother

Lessons Learned From My Grandmother

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Lindsey and I have been out of the blogging world the last few weeks.  Some of this was due to sickness.  A lot of it is due to the failing health and loss of our grandmother last week.  I, Laura, was traveling back and forth to Montgomery over the last couple of weeks to spend some time with my grandmother and be there when she passed.  Lindsey has been tirelessly serving her and family.

Everyone thinks their grandmother is the best.  I could spend a whole blog post telling you about ours.  As I laid awake thinking about her the other night, I started to think more of the lessons I learned from her.  There are so many, but I boiled it down to three.  Although this isn’t your grandmother, I hope you can learn a little bit more about mine and what is important to take from her life.

1. It’s Ok To Be A Lady and Be Smart

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My grandmother eloped at 16 and never really worked much of a job the rest of her life.  She did finish high school, but never got to go to college like her parents wanted her to because she started having babies young.  She was a housewife her whole life to five boys.  So many people last weekend described her as the ultimate housewife, Southern lady, hostess, etc.  I will get to that in number two, but there was one aspect about her that I kept thinking about.

Although she was this proper Southern lady, my grandmother was an avid reader about everything.  She was analytical and always sharing with me something about a recent book she read.  Although she spent hours perusing magazines looking at house decorations, she also read biographies, fiction, nonfiction and Christian books.  When I was at her house last month, although her health was horrible, she still had a book out about habits that she was about to start reading.  I thought “How many people are still worried about changing their habits when they are facing the end of their lives?”

She also was passionate about college football and politics.  No, she didn’t just watch Alabama football games and pretend to know what was going on.  She had the depth chart out and tended to know more then the men in the room.  She also knew a lot about politics and current events.  She knew everything about candidates and what was going on in government.  Although we didn’t always agree on everything, Ganma loved politics.  I think that is why her sons and grandkids are all knowledgable about current events/politics.  We just grew up talking about it like it was normal.

My grandmother taught me that you could be a proper lady and still be passionate and smart.  You can be all things feminine and also care about analyzing things and reading.  This may sound simple, but for someone like me that was wired a lot like my grandmother,  seeing her was a real example for me.

2. The Gift of Hospitality and Caring About The Details

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Her hospitality was probably the thing talked about the most over the last week at her visitation and funeral.  My grandmother loved hosting her big family, as well as friends and parties.  I looked to her growing up as the perfect hostess.  She knew exactly how to arrange fresh flowers, always had some new treat on hand to try when you came to her house, and she always had a pot of coffee on.  I remember sitting around the table with her and her best friends as a child while they drank coffee and I got to have my “coffee milk” (1/4 coffee, 3/4 milk).  Her house was beautiful and inviting, yet she hosted people from all walks of life and made them feel comfortable.  She was a cook like no other.  Until she recently couldn’t walk, she was still always trying a new recipe and telling me about it.  When you came over, she always had fresh sweet tea and lemonade in beautiful pitchers out on the counter.  Somehow, even her lemonade just tasted better than the average lemonade.  My brother put it this way: “She was Martha Stewart on steroids.”  My husband said staying at her house was like staying at a  bed and breakfast.

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About a year ago, Lindsey and I went out to the house with George and Tays.  She had made us some amazing strawberry pie.  She had saved some of the pie pastry and topped it with butter, cinnamon and sugar for George and Tays.  As they ate it and loved it, her face lit up.  I remember sitting there thinking that it was little things like special treats that made my childhood at her house so special.  They were small and subtle, but she put time and thought into everything she made or did.  She made Lindsey and I numerous dresses, Christmas stockings for our whole family, and special gowns for the boys to come home from the hospital in.  She wasn’t an over the top grandmother with gifts, but what she gave you was special with thought and time put into it.  If you stayed at her home, you woke up to homemade pancakes or some kind of treat.

So much of my love for hosting or the need to want to make my family feel special at my house comes from her, as well as my mom and other grandmother.  She might be gone, but I will think about her every time I put on a pot of coffee on for guests, cook one of her many recipes I have, use her China she gave me, arrange fresh flowers or throw a shower.  These might seem like subtle things, but they made a long term impact on everyone around her.  The little things and details do matter.  I will never forget this.  My dad said at her funeral the famous quote, “People will forget what you said and what you did, but they will never forget the way you made them feel.”  When you were at Ganma’s house your felt loved and special.

3. The Gift of Time Spent

Although so many talked about my grandmother’s gift of hospitality and cooking, I think her biggest gift was time spent.  One of her friends said that she was never too busy to listen.  When you were at her house, everything stopped and she expected to sit with you and have a real conversation.  She was warm and a great conversationalist.  She still continued to be a great phone conversationalist up until the end of her life.  If she met you once, she would remember you and ask about you.  I could honestly tell everyone I knew at her visitation, “She always asked about you.”  Although she could subtly tell you how she felt about someone (a Southern lady would never come right out with it), most of her conversations did not revolve around talking bad about people.  She just showed genuine interest in people.

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When I was in college at The University of Alabama, her and Papa had season tickets and took their motor home up for home games.  I was in college but still valued going over to their motor home on a Friday afternoon and just talking.  Of course, she always brought me cookies or homemade bread.  She was still hosting even in their motor home.  If I called her, she was never too busy to have a long conversation.  She was so happy just to talk.  There didn’t have to be an agenda.  She just really enjoyed being with people and conversing with them.  My dad said dish duty with her was even special as a teenager because he got to have great conversations with his mom.  I think that is what I will miss the most – just picking up the phone and calling Ganma.

Instead of just tearing up (which I am currently doing), I hope I learn this lesson with my own children and friends.  I hope I am never too busy to listen, have someone in my home and enter into a great conversation.  Speaking of conversations, we had an analytical conversation a couple of years ago about the book “Heaven Is For Real.”  I know she is now experiencing the ultimate form of hospitality.  I am glad she is out of pain and seeing things I cannot imagine.  Thank you for reading about my grandmother and the lessons I learned from her.

~ Laura

Friday Favorites

Friday Favorites

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Man, what a crazy week!  I think Jen Hatmaker’s status said it best: Taking Care of Ourselves.  We have also had a lot going on with the health of our grandmother this week.  Even though our Friday Favorites can seem trivial right now, it is important to remember the fun, small things that bring a smile to our face this week.

Perfect Chocolate Buttercream Frosting


I decided to make a cake last month for the Super Bowl.  I searched the internet for the best chocolate icing to put with the yellow cake my husband requested.  I found this recipe, and it is to die for.  I also love that it makes more than enough icing for a cake.  I hate when I make icing and it is not quite enough to cover the mistakes I inevitably make while icing the cake.  This recipe makes plenty, and you will be glad to have that much to eat!  Here is the link: Buttercream Chocolate Frosting.


Chatbooks is an app that makes pictures books.  They are only $8 and you get 30 pages (one picture per page).  The great thing is that you can use pictures from social media.  I started out by doing some pictures of my son’s first year of life. It turned out so cute!  This is a great way to document when I don’t have a lot of time.

Metal Letters


We are redoing our den to get our house ready to sell.  I needed something to go on a wall where I got rid of a dark, heavy picture.  I found big metal letters at Hobby Lobby last week half off (you can pretty much find anything there half off if your timing is right).  I got enough letters to spell out HOME.  I really love them and plan on taking them to our next house too.

Parks and Recreation

Parks and Recreation

Well, my husband and I have been into this show for a while now.  This is not a new discovery.  However, we quickly watched the first six seasons on Netflix last year.  We just started watching the seventh season this week, because they released it later.  With all the political and social turmoil going on right now, this show has been a little sunshine this week.  We haven’t watched a good comedy in a while, and I forgot how good it can be for the soul.  Side note:  Don’t judge the whole series on the short first season.  It gets so much better from the second season on.  If you don’t know who Little Sebastian is, you are missing out!

Favorite Things Party

I went to a party this week at a friend’s house, and I thought it was the cutest idea.  You had to bring something that was a favorite for you.  I just had to share.  Below are the rules:

Per Katy…This is how the fave things swap goes:

1. We each bring three of the same item ($5-10).
2. Keep the items unwrapped.
3. Everyone is assigned a number. You’ll put the same number on each of your items. I’ll bring stickers to number the items.
4. One at a time, draw a number and whatever item is assigned to that number is the item you get!
5. Repeat step 4, two more times until everyone has three different items!

During the first round, as your item gets picked, you’ll explain what you brought and why it’s your favorite.

It was so much fun! I came home with a bottle of street relieving lotion, a ring and nail polish.

Have a happy Friday!

~ Laura and Lindsey

My Friend Maribeth And Why You Need to Read Her Story

My Friend Maribeth And Why You Need to Read Her Story

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Today’s post is not really meant to highlight my writing, but it is more to direct you to my friend’s blog so you can hear her story for yourself.  My friend Maribeth (a special friend since high school) has the strongest faith of anyone I know.  A couple of year ago I got to be apart of her wedding weekend, and my husband and I both left saying that it was the most uplifting wedding we had ever been part of.  You cannot be around her or her husband Kyle without having a sense that you just encountered someone who really got what faith is all about.  Maribeth has been a missionary, spent her Friday nights praying with strippers and prostitutes in Atlanta, and has a huge heart for underprivileged children.

This past November she had something happen that shouldn’t happen to any mother.  She lost her baby girl at full term.  I could spend my blog going through the story, but it is better coming from her own words.  I am leaving a link to her blog.  Please read the first post “Opal’s Birth Story”  and the second post about what caused this.  I think it is important to read both because 1. Maribeth and Kyle are inspirations to me and a testament of real faith.  Also, Opal’s story deserves to be heard.  2. It is important to bring awareness to what caused this, and Maribeth so eloquently explains everything.  Here is a link to her blog: My Mamas Heart.

I cried through her post, but I learned so much about what faith looks like in the face of adversity.  I hope you can read and learn about her heart.  Every word I have heard from Maribeth since going through this has blown me away.  From her texts about gratitude for this experience to her beautiful words about grief, she has set an amazing example.  This is really a beautiful story that I am sharing from my heart today.

~ Laura

P.S. I went pretty old school with this picture…

Can moms dream too?

Can moms dream too?


Last Friday and Saturday, my husband and I attended a marriage conference through our church.  The guest speakers were Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley. To be completely honest, we were excited about the conference but we were more excited because my parents got us a babysitter to make sure we could attend. When leading up to the weekend, I kept thinking about all the things we needed to do around our house or all of the things we could be doing as a family as opposed to being at the marriage conference. Knowing my parents had already booked the babysitter, I reluctantly showed up Friday night and I am so glad I did.

We were sitting in the audience Friday night listening to the Smalley’s when they started to talk about dreaming together. They asked us to pause and turn to our partner and tell them what was on our bucket list. As I turned to Ben, my mind went blank.  I told Ben to go first to give me a second to think. He told me his bucket list and then asked me mine. I sat there drawing a blank. Had my mind turned to mush from having two small children, or had I truly forgotten the dreams I once had for myself?  I could sit and name “administrative dreams” such as save for our children to go to college or pay off our house early, but I legitimately could not think of dreams I had for myself. Not my dreams for my family or my children, but for me. After staring at Ben and drawing a blank, I could begin to see the disappointment in his eyes. Usually “dreaming together” has been one of my favorite parts about marriage. Dreaming for myself had also always been a huge part of who I am. Somehow in the hustle and bustle of life and giving my all to my famil,y I realized I had lost a part of me and I wondered, “can I still have dreams for me?”

We got in the car and began to make our way to my parents to pick up my son. As soon as we got in the car, my husband turned to me and asked if I could really not think of things I wanted for myself. I could tell he was really sad for me. He had told me wonderful things on his bucket list such as write a book and learn another language. How has he maintained his dreams and somehow I had become a shell of my old self? There was a part of me that felt like in I was so overwhelmed dreaming of what I wanted for my children and my husband that I did not have the right to dream for myself.

We went on with the conference and learned some wonderfully practical things for our marriage. The only thing that was still lurking in my mind was, “what are my dreams for ME?” After going through stupid questions like, “can I still have aspirations for myself outside of being a good mom?” Or even “what am I even good at anymore?” I sadly know they are the insecurities I have grown to feel as I have devoted myself to being a stay at home mom. When I worked I had something that was mine, something that I was good at.

Before becoming a mom I worked at a University in Nashville. In both of my positions there my main job was to work with people – whether that was helping them figure out their financial aid or working in the President’s Office. I love to communicate, solve problems and help people and I knew I was good at it. I recognize that raising my children is the hardest work I will ever do and let me say I love my job, but somewhere in the day to day I have let my own self doubt creep in and it has left me forgetting my passions.

Over the past few days since returning to “mom life,” I have tried to carve out time each day to remember who I am and what I am passionate about. I am trying to make time to stay sharpe and stay passionate about things I like. While rocking a baby, I downloaded the book Former People by Douglas Smith.  Former People is a book about the fall of the Russian aristocracy durning the Bolshevik Revolution. In my former life I liked history (lol). While I should be finishing my latest parenting book, something about reading something that truly interest me made me feel sharp. I have also began praying that God would help me to become more confident in him. He is revealing in various ways that becoming more confident in Him will allow be to be a better parent and wife.

In a effort to be transparent and to do my own “homework,” I decided to come up with a list of 5 things to start my bucket list! So here they are…

1. Learn French
2. Take a trip to the Holy land.
3. Learn to successfully ballroom dance.
4. Run a race. (I am not a runner, but always wished I was. Surely I could do a half marathon or at least a 5k one day!)
5. Live in a foreign country. (I have always thought it would be cool to live abroad for a large or small amount of time. If not in our “young life,” maybe in retirement.)

Well there you have it! A start to my bucket list. So the answer to my opening question, “can moms have dreams too?” I am learning we absolutely can. I know raising my children and being a good wife is the best thing I can do in this life, but I can never be successful at those if I do not tend to myself first.

So, I raise my half drank coffee cup to remembering who I am and the ways He has gifted me and the ways he has gifted you!

~xoxo, Lindsey

Do my homework with me and list 5 things on your bucket list with the hashtag #momscandreamtoo

A Kid Friendly Trip to Chattanooga

A Kid Friendly Trip to Chattanooga


My sister in law asked us a few weeks ago if we would like to go with them to the Chattanooga Aquarium.  We were excited to say yes because we have been wanting to take Tays to the aquarium for a while.  We decided to go spend the night Sunday before going to the aquarium Monday (a really romantic Valentine’s Day, right?).

We have seen a Groupon for a while for the Chattanooga Choo Choo hotel downtown.  We booked it because it was convenient and my son is obsessed with trains.  Would I recommend it?  Yes and no.  It is very cool and interesting.  It is the old train station turned into a hotel.  We got a regular hotel room, but you can actually stay in one of the old train cars that has been converted into a room.


They also had a nice indoor pool, which was also a plus with a 2 year old.  Why would I recommend it?  It is so convenient and affordable!  We were able to take the downtown shuttle (kudos to Chattanooga for a having a great shuttle system) to dinner Sunday night and the aquarium Monday morning.  The shuttle runs right by the hotel.  We were also convenient to great eating downtown.  We did not pay a lot because of the groupon, and our son really enjoyed the train cars and indoor pool.


However, the hotel is really old.  They said the rooms were recently updated, but we still dealt with drafty hallways and bad water pressure.  The room itself was good for the price, but getting our family and luggage in the tiny elevator was a problem.  I am sure that is what you get when you deal with an old hotel.  Overall, it was a neat experience and we could not have asked for a better location.  Just know when you book the hotel that you have to take the old amenities.  Staying in the train car might be a totally different experience.  Also, definitely get the groupon.  I check travel groupon deals often and they always seem to have a groupon available.

I wish I had better pictures for this post, but it was very cold and rainy the whole time, plus we were dealing with two young kids.  Restaurant shout outs:  Big River Grill for dinner and Chattz Coffee for breakfast.  We met my sister in law and her family at Big River Grill Sunday night.  We all got the fish tacos (my sister in law had them before on a work trip).  They were amazing! I would highly recommend that dish.  We also went to Chattz Coffee and Wine Bar for breakfast the next morning.  It was right by the aquarium.  The coffee was good, but we especially liked their oatmeal breakfast bars.  Big River Grill and Chattz are both on the same street as the aquarium.

Finally, we went to the aquarium, and I will leave you with some pictures.  I have only been to the Atlanta aquarium before, and it was a while ago so it is hard to compare.  I liked that the Chattanooga aquarium was divided into two buildings for fresh water and salt water. That gave us a good break to take lunch.  The kids loved it!  It is also very convenient for us.  The staff was great and it was not too crowded (which I’ve heard can be a problem in Atlanta).  Plus, if you have never been to Chattanooga, it is a beautiful place.  Downtown is on the river and surrounded by mountains.  The aquarium is right on the river.  You cannot go wrong.

These cousins had fun looking at fish together.


The dive show was one of our favorite things in the salt water building.  I felt like a little kid.  I think the parents were having just as much fun as the kids.



When Tays saw the turtles and alligators, he said “I want to get in.”  No you don’t buddy, no you don’t!




One of my favorite things to see were all the jelly fish.  I know, they are really pretty until they sting you…


I love when we take a trip that makes my son so happy.  He loves his cousins, trains and fish, so he was in heaven.  We took this last picture in our hotel room Sunday night.  I mentioned on Facebook that my husband said (as we changed two poppy diapers in our hotel room) “It’s just another day in paradise.”  There is some sarcasm and a lot of truth in that statement.  We will have many other Valentine’s focused on us, but it was fun this year to have some good family time.  Just gotta embrace it!


~ Laura

The Stress of Needing More

The Stress of Needing More



I started off 2016 by saying I wanted 2016 to be the year my life became more minimal. With the materialistic world we live in, I wanted 2016 to be the year I had less stuff and more special moments. I made the resolution, told those close to me, bought the how-to book, and here I am over a month into the new year with very little change. I guess life has happened and in the process I have forgotten my resolution.

So here I sit looking at a pile of clean laundry on my dining room table and clueless to how I am going to stuff it into my full dresser and crammed closet. My drawers are stuffed to the brim with old t-shirts I have kept for “memories,” that old dress I might be able to fit into after I lose the baby weight, and outfits I some how thought were appropriate many moons and many pounds ago. Oh and not just the pile of clothes, let’s talk about the kids “stuff.” I could go on and on.

The other night my husband and I were talking about our “prekid” life. The life where we traveled more and dreamed of moving to a big city. We talked about the time we dreamed about selling our cars and our furniture and moving to Europe! It was such a fantasy we had that we looked for months for jobs. We joked we could never do that now because we have kids but also it would be such an adjustment to not have all of our “stuff” (aka the things we have accumulated in our quest for the “American Dream”).

It starts out very innocently. For us it started out with now we have big boy and big girl jobs, we need better cars. Then we need a house. Now we have a house, we need to redo it to make it better. Now that we have a kid, we need a bigger house so we have a place to put all the toys. Now that we have a bigger yard, we need more stuff to keep it up. Now that we have a bigger house, we need new furniture to fill it. Now that we have a second kid, we need a bigger house so we can still have a guest room. Wait, now all of a sudden my car is not big enough because we have more children and need more space. Isn’t that exhausting? More more more. Always looking to the next big thing we think or society tells us we need.

Our church recently had our Missions Sunday. It was such an encouragement to me and my husband and a reminder of what is really important. We heard a story of a couple that has moved themselves and their three children to Turkey to spread the good news of Jesus to the people of Turkey. I walked away feeling challenged to step out in faith but also to give up some of the “stuff” so we can give more.

We have been so blessed and I want to be more giving from that blessing, but to also cherish more moments with my children rather then being so tied down to my to do lists and stuff.

This is a little something that has been on my heart lately. I know it is not a bad thing to have nice things or the house we want, but I do not want to be so tied down to my things and the dreams I have for my life that I do not miss if God is calling us to something bigger or different.

So I sit here over a month into the new year and really wanting to hit the restart button on my New Years resolution! This week I start with getting rid of the clothing clutter! Onto more moments and less things…. Coffee is brewing, babies are napping and momma is dreaming! So today I am one step closer to letting go of the stress of needing more. Instead, I want to step out in faith and say, “God I am not sure why you are stirring my heart in this way, but I want to trust more in you and less in my abilities to ‘build’ our life.”

Xoxo, Lindsey

How are you doing with your new year resolutions?